Through the Hardest Season of Our Lives
I moved to Houston, Texas, in April of 89. My loving husband and best friend, Michael, and I have three adult children. One son, Michael, and two daughters, Kairon and Ambra. In April 2010, my youngest daughter was paralyzed during surgery at 17. She was a junior in high school. Our whole lifestyle changed. I couldn’t understand why God would let this happen. I became angry with God for a while when everything didn’t run smoothly.
However, when I spoke with my pastor, he directed me to the scripture John 16:33 NIV.
“I have told you these things so that in me you may have peace. In this world, you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”
After reading that verse repeatedly, I asked God to give me strength through this because the doctors and hospital were not blamed for the incident. We also had to make our home handicap accessible and pay for everything on our own.
During our journey with our new life, even though my daughter is wheelchair-bound, she didn’t give up on her education. She graduated with honors from high school. Then, she attended Texas Southern University and achieved her bachelor’s degree in education Magna Cum Laude. I had to change my shift from days to nights so I could take her to school and wheel her to class every day.
I also did my online courses outside each classroom she attended. Every day we did this from the time she started college until she graduated. I attended Liberty University, earning my bachelor’s degree in business administration and graduating in 2015. She graduated in 2016.
Throughout this ordeal, God gave me the strength to work full time, attend online classes, and take my daughter to school, doctor visits, and physical therapy. It wasn’t easy. We had obstacles, but God was always by our side.